I switched on TV today to watch Obama’s
reception at Rashtrapati Bhavan. But my eyes got glued to the lady in
uniform-Wing Commander Puja Thakur! The grace in her walk, the calm on her
face, the pride on her shoulders, the precision in her voice and
the confidence with which she carried herself in that navy-blue uniform-have
you ever seen a more sexier model? I haven't. Sorry for Mr. Obama, but standing right behind him ,she is the
one who stole the show today. I am not interested in knowing the
outcome of US president's visit or the theme of R-Day, but this
woman made me smile today-I was glad and filled with utmost
respect to watch her lead the guard of honor for the most powerful man and reminisce my childhood
dream where I wished to be somebody like her.
I was some 7-8 years old when DD National used
to telecast a navy based serial -'Aarohan'. Pallavi Joshi was the main
lead. The story revolved around how a young stubborn girl turns into a
dignified, determined and disciplined woman navy officer. That was the time
when I didn't even know that Indian Armed Forces had three wings
(Yes I was an ignorant kid and Google uncle wasn't around)- I only
knew that those people in uniform are brave hearts and "wo desh ko
bachate hain". I used to eagerly wait for
Sundays to watch Nikita(Pallavi Joshi)- it was fascinating to see how she underwent those difficult
training sessions with injuries on knees and elbows, how she almost gave
up but didn't , how she sang the national anthem, how she was passionate
about to serve her country, how she fought her fears, her parents, her physical
stamina and also the dramatic in-love phase with a senior officer. The strict
discipline and rules that the cadet had to follow were very intriguing for me
and seeing a girl follow it was all the more inspiring at that time. Her neatly washed and
ironed white shirt with knee length skirt, white navy cap with black border, the
firmness and smartness in her posture with her left hand neatly raised till the forehead for a salute.... I was totally fidaa on her personality and wanted to
become SHE. I wanted to be a Nikita someday. I wanted to be in army.
I didn't
tell anyone. But I knew I would be happy being her. I remember I used
to act like her in front of the mirror. I do remember.
During school days, my PT instructor used to ask
me to give Stand-At-Ease/Attention commands to the entire class. That
used to be a very enthralling moment for me-shouting out loud and clear-CLASS--SAAVDHAAN----VISHRAM-----SAAVDHAN-----VISHRAM.
Taking part in Republic or Independence Day parades with all those rules for
movement of hands, legs and shoulders was both fun and fulfilling -LEFT RIGHT
LEFT---LEFT RIGHT LEFT. But the rat race and hunger for marks ate away the childhood fantasy. The drama was a small series and ended quite
soon. DD used to do a repeat telecast and I remember I watched it every single
time. But then one fine day it stopped telecasting, I grew up, board classes
weren't too far and somewhere in between sneaked in the devil-IIT-JEE. Bas
wahin THE-END ho gaya!!
When I saw Puja Thakur today, I had a sudden flashback of all these memories and I realized that I have already traveled a long distance from what-could-have- been to what-could-never-be. My dream just got expired. I know I could have made it but maybe I wasn't passionate enough; may be it was just a dream and not an ambition. I just hope that the girls and women who aspire to be in army/navy and have still not crossed the age bar got inspired today. I wish we have more Puja Thakur's in the future to lead not just on R-Day but Every-Day, Every-Where.
For me, matching earrings with your dress is an ordinary thing. Beauty lies in matching your attitude with the pride you earn. Proud of you Puja Thakur. I am sure today you must have awakened many dreams.
Thank You! I am all smiles for You, for me :-)
The head is definitely held high!!!
The head is definitely held high!!!